YouMatter exists to see lives transformed, by inspiring positive choices

We provide high-quality, interactive and engaging workshops for young people in schools, youth clubs and other community settings. We also provide sessions for parents and training for professionals.

Our approach is informed by national guidance, local trends and what young people tell us are the issues that they face.

All of our workshops are tailored to the needs of the particular group that we are working with.

We have 9 key areas of work:

  • Self-Esteem and Confidence
  • Positive Relationships
  • Decision-making Around Sex
  • Sexually Transmitted Infections, including HIV and AIDS
  • Child Sexual Exploitation (CSE) Prevention
  • Sexting and Staying Safe Online
  • The Impact and Effects of Pornography
  • Alcohol, Drugs Misuse and Staying Safe
  • Supporting Positive Parenting

The charity was formed on 1 June 2011 and was formerly known as ‘Love Matters’. 

YouMatter is run by a group of Christians who are keen to respond to the pressures, choices and challenges that young people face in our society today.

The charity is overseen by a Board of Trustees, and employs two members of staff.

We are a member of the Association of Jersey Charities (member number 407). We are also a core member of the Sex Education Forum, a national forum hosted by the National Children’s Bureau.


Sarah Gray

Executive Director

Sarah is the founder and Executive Director of YouMatter. She has worked with young people since 2008 and has background in HIV and AIDS education. She has a passion for helping young people to build their self-esteem and develop an understanding of their true value and worth.

Emily Martin


Emily has been an Educator for YouMatter since September 2014. Emily has a particular interest in promoting body confidence in young people and challenging societal ideals around body image. She loves teaching around the true meaning of beauty.

Kirsten Slatter


Kirsten joined YouMatter as an Educator in 2017. She has really enjoyed getting trained up and becoming familiar with our workshops. Kirsten has also been helping us to update our social media channels and reach more people with our messages online. Watch this space – coming soon to a school near you!



Gerry Baudains

Chairman - Board of Trustees

Gerry has been a Trustee of YouMatter since its conception.  As a former foster carer and a former youth court magistrate she has seen first-hand some of the consequences of poor self-esteem and decision making. She is delighted to be an advocate of a charity that seeks to help young people grow a positive self-image and make good decisions.

Fran Brooks

Fran Brooks


Fran is a teacher in one of the island’s secondary schools. Her passion for young people and seeing them realise their potential and value started with youth work 12 years ago and has now led her into the world of teaching. Fran has been a Trustee of YouMatter since 2014. 

Paul Milbank


Paul has a passion for social action and has been a Trustee of YouMatter since 2014. Paul is proud to be part of an organisation that responds to the immense pressures that young people face in our rapidly changing social and cultural landscape, leaving young people deeply impacted and equipped to make good and healthy choices.
Kim Hewlett

Kim Hewlett


Kim is our newest Trustee of YouMatter. She feels that is so important for young people today to be presented with alternative, positive, world views about themselves and their relationships, compared to those presented by current media. She feels that YouMatter do this “fantastically!” and was keen to get involved.

Heather Warren

Heather Warren


Heather is one of our founding Trustees. She has a background in education and is driven to help all young people understand their true value and worth. 

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